TYPE ONE reassure them that they have value 

TYPE TWO show them you are intentional in the things you say to them

TYPE THREE encourage them without forming a competition

TYPE FOUR sit and be in the moment with them, even if you have nothing to say

TYPE FIVE let them vent first, so they can take in what you are sharing

TYPE SIX make sure your character aligns with your actions, this is crucial to keeping your friendship with them close

TYPE SEVEN know that they may not always be as upbeat on the inside, as they seem on the outside

TYPE EIGHT communication is key

TYPE NINE give them plenty of time to collect their thoughts and feelings after a hard time